Most common questions used to investigate
Are you honest with yourself?
Do you meditate often?
Do you do things that you don't believe in?
Do you feel unhappy when others dislike you?
Do you express yourself often in front of others?
Are you surrounded by people who believe and respect you?
Common conclusions
You must be honest to yourself before you're ready to share a meaningful relationship with someone else in your life. This means you connect to yourself, so there is transparency in your thoughts. You should be able to honestly tell yourself that you like or dislike someone/something without cheating your brain. For example, if you hate the idea of going to the gym, it is better when you accept that reality, so you can find alternate ways to stay fit. If you keep denying that thought, you'll end up feeling guilty and unhappy.
Meditation is a great way to know more about yourself. It is almost like taking a peek into your innermost thoughts and feelings, so you can not only stay connected with your inner self but will start doing things that are in tune with it. Such a converted understanding and the subsequent actions that come with it will give you a sense of peace and tranquillity, and nothing will disturb you anymore.
This means you're not living true to yourself. The first step to avoid this mistake is to understand who you are and what are your thoughts and beliefs. Next, make it a point to never do the things that conflict with your thoughts, so your thoughts and actions are always in tune with each other. This will go a long way in helping you to be true to yourself and also to live a life of peace and harmony.
When your thoughts and actions are on the same path, you'll be forced to say no to things that don't match with your thoughts. The byproduct of that is that there are people who will tend to dislike you. In fact, this is a natural process of being true to yourself because when you respect your beliefs, you will contradict those whose beliefs are against yours. So, never feel sad or unhappy when others dislike you as it is a sign that you are standing up for what you believe is right.
It is about time you start to tell others when they ask you to do something that is against what you believe is right. While this doesn't have to be a curt or harsh reply, it should still be a firm no followed by an explanation as to how that action or thought is against your beliefs.
It is about time you have a network of people who accept you for what you are and believe and respect your thoughts and values.
Great! Continue to build on your relationship with such positive people and you'll continue to grow to be a better person.
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