Investigate Problem

Am I Pushing People Away?

Follow the prompts to identify the solution

proposes Do you often act accusatory?

Yes Add

No Add

Yes

No

Thank you! Your submission has been received!
Oops! Something went wrong while submitting the form.

Add additional info to your problem.

We'll personally review your case within 24 hours.

Help solve the problem by asking a question or proposing a solution.

Thank you! Your submission has been received!
Oops! Something went wrong while submitting the form.
Most common questions used to investigate

Do you often act accusatory?

Do you take everything too personally?

Do you think too high of yourself and make others feel like they are of lesser importance?

Do you always complain?

Do you often don’t listen to what others say?

Do you often act like the victim?

Common conclusions

Based on your answers, you don’t seem to behave in a way that pushes people away. Everyone acts in a toxic way from time to time. But, for someone’ own happiness and success, it’s important to be able to identify the behavior and shift it. People should never allow their toxic behavior to push people away. If you recognize toxic behavior in someone close to you, it may be important to

Based on your answers, you are displaying some signs related to pushing people away. We all act in a toxic way from time to time. Sometimes, we push people away without realizing it. In other cases, we do it consciously, but later regret our behavior. Avoid complaining about everything and try to seek solutions to your problems. Start by working on identifying and healing the root causes of your behavior. Then, try to be more open with others and make sure you are not pushing people away with annoying personality characteristics.

Unfortunately, you are displaying the signs typically seen among individuals who are pushing people away. It’s important to recognize your own toxic behavior. Make sure you take a step back and do your best to see the situation from other people’s perspective. Maybe it can be useful to talk with a therapist. They will help you to identify the thoughts and feelings that cause you to push people away. Then, they will help you to change habits to maintain healthy relationships. Make sure to smile and greet people when you see them, take a minute to ask how they are, and participate in conversations. When a complaint pops into your head, see if you can turn it around and find something positive to say instead.

References

https://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Pushing-People-Away
https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/6-ways-you-are-pushing-people-away-even-though-you-dont-feel-like-you-are.html
https://optimalpositivity.com/7-signs-you-are-pushing-people-away-and-how-to-fix-it/

Related Problems
Author

Ambra null
Hi! I’m Ambra Marcucci. I have a PhD in Psychology and Justice and I have been working as a content writer for over 2 years. Besides writing, I am an extremely passionate American Football player, and I am studying to become a sports agent. I’m originally Dutch and speak Italian, English and Portuguese as well. You can find me on LinkedIn at: www.linkedin.com/in/ambra-marcucci-67505175/